Sunday, 28 February 2016
Wednesday, 24 February 2016
Anger
Sunday, 21 February 2016
Appreciation 1
A better life has been achieved when we are no longer trying to achieve a better life. It means that we are content, as we should be, with ourselves and what we have. To be anxious for more or to envy someone else's life or possessions is self-defeating. We are then in a constant state of frustration, always hoping and waiting for more happiness.So what is important? Enough, not more."Think of what you have rather than of what you lack. Of the things you have, select the best and then reflect how eagerly you would have sought them if you did not have them." - Marcus Aurelius (121-180)There is, here and now, much to appreciate. There is life itself with friends, family, and everything that is naturally before us. We just have to look around and take it in. Perhaps it is time to make a list of all the good things we have to grateful for.Are there people in your life that you would miss dearly if they were not here? When you go for a walk don't you see, hear, and smell, many things to appreciate and feel nice about? Like the flowers, trees, birds, and the clouds in the sky. A caterpillar crossing the sidewalk or your neighbor waving. A cute pup or child enthusiastically enjoying that moment in life.It just makes good sense to be satisfied and at peace with yourself and others, and to enjoy life now.
Past
We all make mistakes. Sometimes they are very bad and cause ourselves and others much worry and suffering. We can be depressed and burdened with regret for many years, never forgiving ourselves, never forgetting our actions. Carrying on in this way is another big mistake, disturbing our lives in very unpleasant and painful ways.
It is not necessary. Worrying about something that has already happened is a complete waste of time if you just keep wishing that it hadn't happened. There is absolutely nothing you can do to change it.
"We ought not to look back unless it is to derive useful lessons from past errors, and for the purpose of profiting by dear-brought experience." - George Washington (1732-1779)
Perhaps there is some way to make amends and that should still be a consideration. If not then regard it as a learning experience. Review what has happened enough to draw conclusions about what to do, and what not do, in the future. But then forget the stupid or bad thing you did and start thinking about something else.
Negative thoughts about the past will keep coming back again and again unless there are other thoughts occupying your mind. Begin feeding your brain with encouraging and fun ideas especially when that 'thing' from the past returns. Be generous, kind and forgiving to others and yourself.
Saturday, 20 February 2016
Change
Embrace change and realize it happens for a reason. It won’t always be obvious at first, but in the end it will be worth it.What you have today may become what you had by tomorrow. You never know. Things change, often spontaneously. People and circumstances come and go. Life doesn’t stop for anybody. It moves rapidly and rushes from calm to chaos in a matter of seconds, and happens like this to people every day. It’s likely happening to someone nearby right now.
Sometimes the shortest split second in time changes the direction of our lives. A seemingly innocuous decision rattles our whole world like a meteorite striking Earth. Entire lives have been swiveled and flipped upside down, for better or worse, on the strength of an unpredictable event. And these events are always happening.
However good or bad a situation is now, it will change. That’s the one thing you can count on. So when life is good, enjoy it. Don’t go looking for something better every second. Happiness never comes to those who don’t appreciate what they have while they have it.
Wrong People..
failure comes before success
Most mistakes are unavoidable. Learn to forgive yourself. It’s not a problem to make them. It’s only a problem if you never learn from them.If you’re too afraid of failure, you can’t possibly do what needs to be done to be successful. The solution to this problem is making friends with failure. You want to know the difference between a master and a beginner? The master has failed more times than the beginner has even tried. Behind every great piece of art is a thousand failed attempts to make it, but these attempts are simply never shown to us.Bottom line: Just because it’s not happening now, doesn't mean it never will. Sometimes things have to go very wrong before they can be right.
Patience Win In All....
Your life is yours alone. Others can try to persuade you, but they can't decide for you. They can walk with you, but not your shoes. So make sure the path you decide to walk aligns with your own intuition and desires, and don't be scared to switch paths or pave a new one when it makes sense. Remember, it's always better to be at the bottom of the ladder you want to climb than the top of the one you don't. Be productive and patient. And realize
that patience is not about waiting, but the ability to keep a good attitude while working hard for what you believe in. This is your life, and it is made up entirely of your choices. Make your actions to speak louder than your words, make your life to preach louder than your lips, make your success to be your noise in the end. And if life only teaches you one thing, let it be that taking a passionate leap is always worth it. Even if you have no idea where you're going to land, be brave enough to step up to the edge of the unknown, and listen to your heart.
Friday, 19 February 2016
Inspiration nation: Confidence
Inspiration nation: Confidence: Have you often admired the person who is friendly, relaxed and talks easily in a crowd? Most of us have wished that we had more of these ...
Confidence
Have you often admired the person who is friendly, relaxed and talks easily in a crowd? Most of us have wished that we had more of these outgoing attributes to help us in our work and daily lives.Confidence comes easily and naturally for some, And for many others it seems impossible, because they have no foundation for it.When you try new things, like take risk doing things you feel you might not be good at. If you do better than you expected, you'll feel great; and even if you don't succeed, at least you'll have given it a go. Taking risks and trying new things helps you develop and move forward in life.Be confident in your opinions and actions, and be prepared to explain them to anyone who may not agree with you. Don't say what you think others want you to say be your own person.A great source for learning self-confidence is of course books. You haven't been alone in the need for information on improving your ability to interact positively with people and there are numerous self-help books available to get you started. Just take an easy approach and read a variety of the best sellers that you feel will benefit you the most.When you say no clearly, but without being aggressive or rude. Give an explanation, but be firm...!!!
Thursday, 18 February 2016
Life
What is life ?life as we look at it is not what it looks like..Without the Deep sense of understanding life will look more fizzy for you But it is not as we look at it.. In other words.....Life... is like a box of chocolates — cheap, thoughtless, perfunctory gift that no one ever asks for, nonreturnable because all you get back is another box of chocolates. So, you're stuck with mostly undefinable whipped mint crap, mindlessly wolfed down when there's nothing else to eat while you're watching the game. Sure, once is a while you get a peanut butter cup or an English toffee but it's gone too fast and the taste is fleeting. In the end, you are left with nothing but broken bits filled with hardened jelly and teeth-shattering nuts, which, if you are desperate enough to eat, leaves nothing but an empty box of useless brown paper.Each man is his own absolute lawgiver and dispenser of glory or gloom to himself, the maker of his life, his reward, his punishment.
After all In the book of life, the answers aren't in the back
After all In the book of life, the answers aren't in the back
Tuesday, 16 February 2016
Keep moving
You have tried and fail and you rise again, you make mistakes and Misunderstand some things around you, As you live you learn. It is because you are a living bean but not perfect.
You have been hurt and too broken, but you are alive and still walking. You have think of the precious life which you are living, to think, to enjoy, and to chase the things you love for a better tomorrow. Sometimes the sadness in our journey makes us want to QUITE, but there is also lots of beauty and joy which is awaiting. We must keep putting one foot in front of the other even when we are hurt and deserted.When you are been deserted you don't have to lose hope.For we never know what is waiting for us just around the bend.History will always blame you for not attempting but history will blame you for not attempting and failing...
Sunday, 14 February 2016
Today marks the Day of Love and I believe you all have made plans and target to meet up but it doesn't work out as you have planed...just hold on. You wake up in the morning and you don't know where your next meal is coming from or even where to from for the day.. Your plans are not going according to plan. People have disappointed you. Friends and those who you hoped on have deserted you, you feel the wold has come to an end.You keep Hustling everyday but you still see no progress in all you do...just keep hustling.Have that hope with faith that God Almighty is watching for he what you will become of. He will turn things around. You shall not Labor all in vain.just say to your self,I'm coming for what is mine!"....I'm coming for the blessings i deserve in life..HAPPY VAL DAY,, Show love to those who are depressed and the less privileged...
Friday, 12 February 2016
Humanity
Don't loose hope in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a little drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty. Privately,we are one drop.Together, we are an ocean.If every one could understand that every other human bean life is as full of sorrows, or joys, or base temptations, of heartaches and of remorse as his own how much kinder, how much gentler he would, but most times the thought of human are negative, only those with sense of humor have positive thought towards human. To me humanity is not a assemblage. An assemblage is a degeneration of humanity. An assemblage is humanity going the wrong way.
Not As You Think
For it is when you try that which you think is easy, you'll know the most difficult part of it. And also in life, what you don't know is greater than you.Mind you,you cannot change what you refuse to confront.
