Confidence

Have you often admired the person who is friendly, relaxed and talks easily in a crowd? Most of us have wished that we had more of these outgoing attributes to help us in our work and daily lives.Confidence comes easily and naturally for some, And for many others it seems impossible, because  they  have  no foundation for  it.When  you  try   new  things, like take risk doing  things you feel you might not be good at. If you do better than you expected, you'll feel great; and even if you don't succeed, at least you'll have given it a go. Taking risks and trying new things helps you develop and move forward in life.Be confident in your opinions and actions, and be prepared to explain them to anyone who may not agree with you. Don't say what you think others want you to say  be your own person.A great source for learning self-confidence is of course books. You haven't been alone in the need for information on improving your ability to interact positively with people and there are numerous self-help books available to get you started. Just take an easy approach and read a variety of the best sellers that you feel will benefit you the most.When  you say no clearly, but without being aggressive or rude. Give an explanation, but be firm...!!!