Just Steps to believe in your Self

 OKAY!,
I  have  to say this to you all for you to  believe AND  trust your self cos  i have  been through a lot.The  first thing!  is to stop feeling sorry for your self because  you are  not  doing  go to your self  by throwing a pity party for your  self, i have  had  phases in my life where  i could have  felt sorry  for my self. Building my self and  my dreams up over all this years;As a Teenager, who lost his parents very  early,i have been a kid  without parents just me  and my siblings, don't feel sorry for me, cos if i have  felt sorry for my self all this years  i will not  be able  to face and  build my career and what-so ever!.The Second thing! Is  to Embrace the Pain;Look, you can't go over it,you can't go under it, you can't go around  it, you can only go through it. And i can hear some of  you saying right  now..That. you don't just know my pain AND i don't.But  I will give you a little snippet of  mine.In 2000,I lost my dad,it was hell but my mother who bent our head on hustle she teaches us how to be strong no matter how,she was and still my role model today,she was  strong and fearless,in 2005 i lost her, it became rougher and tougher for us we  have no one  to run to  for  help, no one to lean on in our  times of  despair,but  we  embrace and  face it. we got each others  back.Years back i didn't act and  speak like this,i didn't feel like this as well and I finally use my  personal development on myself, i had to say this you've got  to stop avoiding this, you've got  accept this and you've got to go through the  pain and you know what? A better  version of me  was waiting for me  on the other side.I am excited  now  that i can look at me and  be  proud  that  i  have made it through the  dark times of my  life and if you Embrace  the pain, you'll be  able  to do the  same thing.
The third thing  i want to share  with you  is don't compare.The  comparison is the thief  of all joy ,it  will make you resentful,bitter,jealous,aggrieved, indignant, irritated and  unproductive.And many of us are looking at  other people comparing them selfs.You are'YOU',concentrate on your  self and be  productive.But  i am telling you right  now, don't  compare because all that  gilters,sparkle, twinkle, glint  are  not gold  not.
The fourth  and  final thing  is get Excited.Don't  just get  excited about  where  you are going, but  get excited  about where you are right  now.Bad  situation and  all! if you are facing the  biggest fight  of your life,get excited about that i know its hard  to  be in excited in your bad  situations God  doesn't give little  fight,God doesn't give  big fight to little  soldiers and if you are  facing a big fight that  just means you  have  grown up into the shield that  only He knew you were ready to wear.So i just want  you to real quick to get  excited.Get  excited  because  you are  the  creator of your own destiny, artist  of your  masterpiece and the  author of your story.Get excited  because  the  world  is  going  to see who you  really  are, that  is  kind, compassionate ,strong,bold and  all out bad-ass!!

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Appreciate 2

Some times people around the world today don't appreciate and value what they have because they are longing for what they don't have.When they can be grateful for the life God has provided in abundance,they are been stressed and anxious about what they don't have or what they are lacking. When concentrating on what is not happening in your life or what you don't have,or even justifying why things are as they are in your life, at this point you are missing the happiness, blessing and greatness which surrounds you entirely. I take my self as a capital example is real,things was really upside down in my life. Each time i take a look across my shoulders i see a lot of responsibilities,see people who depends on me while i can't i pay my bills or even feed my self..All i did was to be appreciative and thankful for the life that i am living at least.I say to them lets be happy with what we have,some are dead today on this same race of life,some lost their sight seeing and some are been locked up for the crime they know nothing about,as a youth let's stay focus and concentrate on what we have;put our ideas together to produce what we don't have with hope, believe and faith the sky will be a place and ground for merriment and a bed of roses for us.

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Unity and Solidarity

'Have been thinking a lot about how I will better be able to relate the events in the world with violence, hatred, abuse,racial discrimination  and intransigence.I personally have come to the conclusion that I'm in the world indeed where  violence, hatred, abuse,racial discrimination is urged, because I believe it is the cause of all wars and conflicts in the world. When we share ourselves into nations, belonging and different confessions, it always about us and them. If we see ourselves as equal entitled to different expression it  enriches and force us to constantly re-examine ourselves to the  development and meaning of life. A sincere interest in other people begets kindness, unity and solidarity. The best help we can offer to someone else is making it easier for others to help yourself, to give, therefore, you can do it without requirements for personal gain. To be the change you want to see in the world. We can't wait for that someone to do the job, we simply must begin with ourselves, in small until it grows big. I believe in that light and love which is what we are, we just have to remind each other about it. All darkness is a part of life as a reminder of who and what we really want to be.Our love must embrace everyone, in the Syria & Iraq,East and west Africa,Turkey,Yemen,Greater Sahel and Lake Chad Basin,Democratic Republic of Congo,South Sudan,Afghanistan and everywhere separation leads to violence.Life have has value when we  have love. To me;hatred have  no place.Everyone  deserves a life free of violence..

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Responsibility 2

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The best day  of your life  is the  you  decide that  your life  is your own .No apologies or  excuses.No one  to lean on.No one  to rely on or  to Blame.The  gift  is  yours  to embrace- for  it  is  an amazing  journey  which  Only  GOD knows  the  secrete and your destination; you alone  bears  the  responsibilities.It  is  the  day your life really begins...From the  lines of  "Bob Moawad"

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LIFE: The Reason For the Hustle

I have  been away for a short period of  time,its all about life and its  hustle and  tussle,So Life is an opportunity, benefit from it. Life is beauty, admire it. Life is bliss, taste it. Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it. Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it. Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it. Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, accept it. Life is a tragedy, confront it. Life is an adventure, dare it. Life is luck, make it. Life is too precious, do not destroy it. Life is life, fight for it.

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Just a Thought

“If only you could sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person” Fred Rogers

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Act fast

All events are important in life but the art of living is more important than anything else. Enhance your inner values by feeling, believing with honest heart. "Actions are the keys not the suggestions". Act fast in life and go with flow before it is too late, of course the change is a challenge but take it as the game of fun to live the life with nothing is impossible attitude.

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