Embrace and Enjoy It..life

Life can be full of happy experiences and we should enjoy each moment as it comes along. A good life is really a collection of happy moments, many little things that happen each day to make us laugh and smile. When we surround ourselves with good friends who make us laugh, and make the time to do the things we enjoy and make us happy, then our life is mostly blessed with happiness. We must also remember that the longer we wait to enjoy the future, the shorter our future will be. Time does not wait for anyone, a day gone is a day gone forever, our time is limited, so let's not waste our time by being stressed or worried about little things that are beyond our control. Will we still be worried and stressed over what someone said, or what happened, in another year? Better to just let it go and choose to be happy. Happiness really is a choice, and saying yes to happiness means learning to say no to the things that upset us. Life really is too short to spend time being worried, upset, and stressed. Also a positive mind will always find solutions to problems while a negative mind will just be consumed with worry.
We should always be grateful and thankful for what we have, because when our heart is free from wanting and needing, and we enjoy life and all that life has to offer, then our mind is free from worry, and less stress means a happier life. So let's fill our heart with love, show the world our beautiful smile, and feel blessed each and every day, because life really is beautiful.A gift from God

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Another Day

Today is not just another day, today is a brand new day, a new beginning, an opportunity to change, to see and do new and exciting things. Let's start each day with a smile and a grateful heart, feeling blessed and happy, because each day is a gift. No one is immune to suffering, it is part of being alive and everyone at some point will experience suffering, we are never alone here. But it is better to move on rather than living in the past, and the best way forward is to let go of any regret, forgive those that have hurt us, and we must also learn to forgive ourselves. Healing does not mean the damage never existed, it means the damage no longer controls our life. It is not forgetting what happened, it is accepting and moving on, and this allows us to fill our life with hope and happiness, joy and laughter, and allows our heart to be filled with love.
Letting go of whatever troubles us from the past, and learning from mistakes we may have made, makes us stronger and wiser, and we also become more understanding and forgiving. Life can be full of joy and laughter, or it can be full of regret and negativity, the choice is ours. So, begin the day with a beautiful smile, feeling blessed and happy, because life is not always perfect, but it is always beautiful,each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most

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Just Steps to believe in your Self

 OKAY!,
I  have  to say this to you all for you to  believe AND  trust your self cos  i have  been through a lot.The  first thing!  is to stop feeling sorry for your self because  you are  not  doing  go to your self  by throwing a pity party for your  self, i have  had  phases in my life where  i could have  felt sorry  for my self. Building my self and  my dreams up over all this years;As a Teenager, who lost his parents very  early,i have been a kid  without parents just me  and my siblings, don't feel sorry for me, cos if i have  felt sorry for my self all this years  i will not  be able  to face and  build my career and what-so ever!.The Second thing! Is  to Embrace the Pain;Look, you can't go over it,you can't go under it, you can't go around  it, you can only go through it. And i can hear some of  you saying right  now..That. you don't just know my pain AND i don't.But  I will give you a little snippet of  mine.In 2000,I lost my dad,it was hell but my mother who bent our head on hustle she teaches us how to be strong no matter how,she was and still my role model today,she was  strong and fearless,in 2005 i lost her, it became rougher and tougher for us we  have no one  to run to  for  help, no one to lean on in our  times of  despair,but  we  embrace and  face it. we got each others  back.Years back i didn't act and  speak like this,i didn't feel like this as well and I finally use my  personal development on myself, i had to say this you've got  to stop avoiding this, you've got  accept this and you've got to go through the  pain and you know what? A better  version of me  was waiting for me  on the other side.I am excited  now  that i can look at me and  be  proud  that  i  have made it through the  dark times of my  life and if you Embrace  the pain, you'll be  able  to do the  same thing.
The third thing  i want to share  with you  is don't compare.The  comparison is the thief  of all joy ,it  will make you resentful,bitter,jealous,aggrieved, indignant, irritated and  unproductive.And many of us are looking at  other people comparing them selfs.You are'YOU',concentrate on your  self and be  productive.But  i am telling you right  now, don't  compare because all that  gilters,sparkle, twinkle, glint  are  not gold  not.
The fourth  and  final thing  is get Excited.Don't  just get  excited about  where  you are going, but  get excited  about where you are right  now.Bad  situation and  all! if you are facing the  biggest fight  of your life,get excited about that i know its hard  to  be in excited in your bad  situations God  doesn't give little  fight,God doesn't give  big fight to little  soldiers and if you are  facing a big fight that  just means you  have  grown up into the shield that  only He knew you were ready to wear.So i just want  you to real quick to get  excited.Get  excited  because  you are  the  creator of your own destiny, artist  of your  masterpiece and the  author of your story.Get excited  because  the  world  is  going  to see who you  really  are, that  is  kind, compassionate ,strong,bold and  all out bad-ass!!

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Appreciate 2

Some times people around the world today don't appreciate and value what they have because they are longing for what they don't have.When they can be grateful for the life God has provided in abundance,they are been stressed and anxious about what they don't have or what they are lacking. When concentrating on what is not happening in your life or what you don't have,or even justifying why things are as they are in your life, at this point you are missing the happiness, blessing and greatness which surrounds you entirely. I take my self as a capital example is real,things was really upside down in my life. Each time i take a look across my shoulders i see a lot of responsibilities,see people who depends on me while i can't i pay my bills or even feed my self..All i did was to be appreciative and thankful for the life that i am living at least.I say to them lets be happy with what we have,some are dead today on this same race of life,some lost their sight seeing and some are been locked up for the crime they know nothing about,as a youth let's stay focus and concentrate on what we have;put our ideas together to produce what we don't have with hope, believe and faith the sky will be a place and ground for merriment and a bed of roses for us.

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Unity and Solidarity

'Have been thinking a lot about how I will better be able to relate the events in the world with violence, hatred, abuse,racial discrimination  and intransigence.I personally have come to the conclusion that I'm in the world indeed where  violence, hatred, abuse,racial discrimination is urged, because I believe it is the cause of all wars and conflicts in the world. When we share ourselves into nations, belonging and different confessions, it always about us and them. If we see ourselves as equal entitled to different expression it  enriches and force us to constantly re-examine ourselves to the  development and meaning of life. A sincere interest in other people begets kindness, unity and solidarity. The best help we can offer to someone else is making it easier for others to help yourself, to give, therefore, you can do it without requirements for personal gain. To be the change you want to see in the world. We can't wait for that someone to do the job, we simply must begin with ourselves, in small until it grows big. I believe in that light and love which is what we are, we just have to remind each other about it. All darkness is a part of life as a reminder of who and what we really want to be.Our love must embrace everyone, in the Syria & Iraq,East and west Africa,Turkey,Yemen,Greater Sahel and Lake Chad Basin,Democratic Republic of Congo,South Sudan,Afghanistan and everywhere separation leads to violence.Life have has value when we  have love. To me;hatred have  no place.Everyone  deserves a life free of violence..

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Responsibility 2

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The best day  of your life  is the  you  decide that  your life  is your own .No apologies or  excuses.No one  to lean on.No one  to rely on or  to Blame.The  gift  is  yours  to embrace- for  it  is  an amazing  journey  which  Only  GOD knows  the  secrete and your destination; you alone  bears  the  responsibilities.It  is  the  day your life really begins...From the  lines of  "Bob Moawad"

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LIFE: The Reason For the Hustle

I have  been away for a short period of  time,its all about life and its  hustle and  tussle,So Life is an opportunity, benefit from it. Life is beauty, admire it. Life is bliss, taste it. Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it. Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it. Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it. Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, accept it. Life is a tragedy, confront it. Life is an adventure, dare it. Life is luck, make it. Life is too precious, do not destroy it. Life is life, fight for it.

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Just a Thought

“If only you could sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person” Fred Rogers

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Act fast

All events are important in life but the art of living is more important than anything else. Enhance your inner values by feeling, believing with honest heart. "Actions are the keys not the suggestions". Act fast in life and go with flow before it is too late, of course the change is a challenge but take it as the game of fun to live the life with nothing is impossible attitude.

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Focus and Attention

Do not  be  Saturated  with the success talks  and  news  of others and how things have gone for them  that  you forget  to create  you own   when  you have  what  it  takes .bring  out you own idea and make  it  known.  You have everything you need in you  to become what ever or  who ever you want to  become, don't feel oppressed.Remember if you  can think it, you can do it  Incredible change happens when you decide to take charge,sit  and  control your idea.  it  mean consuming less and  creating  more. It means refusing to let others do your thinking, talking, and deciding for you.  It means learning to respect and use your own ideas and instincts to  make  your  creation.God the  creator  of  the  Universe  created   you  with  Ideas  inbuilt all  you have  to do is  to  develop it  and bring it  out....Pay more Interest in your work puts quality time  in your output and happiness in your mind.    Shuffle around until you find work that interests you.

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Responsibility 1

Our lives are only as good as we decide to make them. As with any worthwhile project we should make short and long range plans. We should follow them through, reviewing and altering them as we go. It is our design and determination that decide our destiny, and this is our responsibility.
When things go wrong we should not be quick to blame anyone. This can easily become a habit supplying us with ready excuses for our own mistakes and problems. Let's examine others' and our own actions and then decide how we should proceed with our own efforts.

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FEARS

There are common fears that can invade our lives, lessen our well being, and rob us of happiness. A general fear of failing in life can be the result of fear in one or more areas such as with personal health or workplace conditions. A common fear is social anxiety.There are many niche fears that are more confined such as fear of heights, closed spaces, mice, strangers, public speaking and more.Fear tears at our insides and causes us to feel inadequate and panicky. It can be uncomfortable to horrifying and uncontrolled can lead to a lower quality of life. In our endeavor to be happier we should consider learning more about fear, its causes and possible ways of dealing with it. Fire up your search engine or head for the library and learn more about fear.One suggestion offered through the ages is that it is not an event that causes fear, but it is the fear of that event. If it is in our thoughts then it is something that we might control by altering our ideas, attitudes, or actions.

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Be yourself

You are more powerful than you can imagine. Don't limit your thoughts, limit the unnecessary things in your life that will take you nowhere. The world is yours to conquer. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.And  Don't   for  Get   that  you are  an  over-comer 

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Anger

Most of us experience anger at one time or another. Others may get angry with us, justifiably or not. We may become angry at others, sometimes with very good reason, sometimes not. One thing is for sure, it is not a pleasant experience.We cannot always reason with those that are bitter towards us and sometimes we may need to accept that it exists. To counteract this with retaliation is something that needs careful consideration."Consider how much more you often suffer from your anger and grief, than from those very things for which you are angry and grieved." - Marcus AntoniusPerhaps we are guilty of hostility more than we would like to be. Greater interaction with people should reduce these feelings. Less anger should result in more confidence and less stress.Is a discussion possible and is it worthwhile? A few words and an exchange of viewpoints might result in one or both sides having a change in attitude. Try to see another point of view no matter how unreasonable it appears.Consider how you are feeling. It is common, perhaps good advice, to let anger be expressed, to not hold it inside. My personal experience is that sometimes I have regretted this because I was wrong or over reacted. Sometimes the anger still lingered. Avoiding anger in the first place, through conciliation or acceptance, can result in feeling better all around.

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Appreciation 1

A better life has been achieved when we are no longer trying to achieve a better life. It means that we are content, as we should be, with ourselves and what we have. To be anxious for more or to envy someone else's life or possessions is self-defeating. We are then in a constant state of frustration, always hoping and waiting for more happiness.So what is important? Enough, not more."Think of what you have rather than of what you lack. Of the things you have, select the best and then reflect how eagerly you would have sought them if you did not have them." - Marcus Aurelius (121-180)There is, here and now, much to appreciate. There is life itself with friends, family, and everything that is naturally before us. We just have to look around and take it in. Perhaps it is time to make a list of all the good things we have to grateful for.Are there people in your life that you would miss dearly if they were not here? When you go for a walk don't you see, hear, and smell, many things to appreciate and feel nice about? Like the flowers, trees, birds, and the clouds in the sky. A caterpillar crossing the sidewalk or your neighbor waving. A cute pup or child enthusiastically enjoying that moment in life.It just makes good sense to be satisfied and at peace with yourself and others, and to enjoy life now.

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Past

We all make mistakes. Sometimes they are very bad and cause ourselves and others much worry and suffering. We can be depressed and burdened with regret for many years, never forgiving ourselves, never forgetting our actions. Carrying on in this way is another big mistake, disturbing our lives in very unpleasant and painful ways.
It is not necessary. Worrying about something that has already happened is a complete waste of time if you just keep wishing that it hadn't happened. There is absolutely nothing you can do to change it.
"We ought not to look back unless it is to derive useful lessons from past errors, and for the purpose of profiting by dear-brought experience." - George Washington (1732-1779)
Perhaps there is some way to make amends and that should still be a consideration. If not then regard it as a learning experience. Review what has happened enough to draw conclusions about what to do, and what not do, in the future. But then forget the stupid or bad thing you did and start thinking about something else.
Negative thoughts about the past will keep coming back again and again unless there are other thoughts occupying your mind. Begin feeding your brain with encouraging and fun ideas especially when that 'thing' from the past returns. Be generous, kind and forgiving to others and yourself.

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Change

Embrace change and realize it happens for a reason.  It won’t always be obvious at first, but in the end it will be worth it.What you have today may become what you had by tomorrow.  You never know.  Things change, often spontaneously.  People and circumstances come and go.  Life doesn’t stop for anybody.  It moves rapidly and rushes from calm to chaos in a matter of seconds, and happens like this to people every day.  It’s likely happening to someone nearby right now.
Sometimes the shortest split second in time changes the direction of our lives.  A seemingly innocuous decision rattles our whole world like a meteorite striking Earth.  Entire lives have been swiveled and flipped upside down, for better or worse, on the strength of an unpredictable event.  And these events are always happening.
However good or bad a situation is now, it will change.  That’s the one thing you can count on.  So when life is good, enjoy it.  Don’t go looking for something better every second.  Happiness never comes to those who don’t appreciate what they have while they have it.

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Wrong People..

You will only ever be as great as the people you surround yourself with, so be brave enough to let go of those who keep bringing you down.  You shouldn't force connections with people who constantly make you feel less than amazing.If someone makes you feel uncomfortable and insecure every time you’re with them, for whatever reason, they’re probably not close friend material.  If they make you feel like you can’t be yourself, or if they make you “less than” in any way, don’t pursue a connection with them.  If you feel emotionally drained after hanging out with them or get a small hit of anxiety when you are reminded of them, listen to your intuition.  There are so many “right people” for you, who energize you and inspire you to be your best self.  It makes no sense to force it with people who are the wrong match for you.

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failure comes before success

Most mistakes are unavoidable.  Learn to forgive yourself.  It’s not a problem to make them.  It’s only a problem if you never learn from them.If you’re too afraid of failure, you can’t possibly do what needs to be done to be successful.  The solution to this problem is making friends with failure.  You want to know the difference between a master and a beginner?  The master has failed more times than the beginner has even tried.  Behind every great piece of art is a thousand failed attempts to make it, but these attempts are simply never shown to us.Bottom line:  Just because it’s not happening now, doesn't mean it never will.  Sometimes things have to go very wrong before they can be right.

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Patience Win In All....

Your life is yours alone. Others can try to persuade you, but they can't decide for you. They can walk with you, but not your shoes. So make sure the path you decide to walk aligns with your own intuition and desires, and don't be scared to switch paths or pave a new one when it makes sense. Remember, it's always better to be at the bottom of the ladder you want to climb than the top of the one you don't. Be productive and patient. And realize

 that patience is not about waiting, but the ability to keep a good attitude while working hard for what you believe in. This is your life, and it is made up entirely of your choices. Make your actions to speak louder than your words, make your life to preach louder than your lips, make your success to be your noise in the end. And if life only teaches you one thing, let it be that taking a passionate leap is always worth it. Even if you have no idea where you're going to land, be brave enough to step up to the edge of the unknown, and listen to your heart.

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