OKAY!,I have to say this to you all for you to believe AND trust your self cos i have been through a lot.The first thing! is to stop feeling sorry for your self because you are not doing go to your self by throwing a pity party for your self, i have had phases in my life where i could have felt sorry for my self. Building my self and my dreams up over all this years;As a Teenager, who lost his parents very early,i have been a kid without parents just me and my siblings, don't feel sorry for me, cos if i have felt sorry for my self all this years i will not be able to face and build my career and what-so ever!.The Second thing! Is to Embrace the Pain;Look, you can't go over it,you can't go under it, you can't go around it, you can only go through it. And i can hear some of you saying right now..That. you don't just know my pain AND i don't.But I will give you a little snippet of mine.In 2000,I lost my dad,it was hell but my mother who bent our head on hustle she teaches us how to be strong no matter how,she was and still my role model today,she was strong and fearless,in 2005 i lost her, it became rougher and tougher for us we have no one to run to for help, no one to lean on in our times of despair,but we embrace and face it. we got each others back.Years back i didn't act and speak like this,i didn't feel like this as well and I finally use my personal development on myself, i had to say this you've got to stop avoiding this, you've got accept this and you've got to go through the pain and you know what? A better version of me was waiting for me on the other side.I am excited now that i can look at me and be proud that i have made it through the dark times of my life and if you Embrace the pain, you'll be able to do the same thing.
The third thing i want to share with you is don't compare.The comparison is the thief of all joy ,it will make you resentful,bitter,jealous,aggrieved, indignant, irritated and unproductive.And many of us are looking at other people comparing them selfs.You are'YOU',concentrate on your self and be productive.But i am telling you right now, don't compare because all that gilters,sparkle, twinkle, glint are not gold not.
The fourth and final thing is get Excited.Don't just get excited about where you are going, but get excited about where you are right now.Bad situation and all! if you are facing the biggest fight of your life,get excited about that i know its hard to be in excited in your bad situations God doesn't give little fight,God doesn't give big fight to little soldiers and if you are facing a big fight that just means you have grown up into the shield that only He knew you were ready to wear.So i just want you to real quick to get excited.Get excited because you are the creator of your own destiny, artist of your masterpiece and the author of your story.Get excited because the world is going to see who you really are, that is kind, compassionate ,strong,bold and all out bad-ass!!
